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99 reasons why I prefer sex with str8 men – Reason 1: Raw Masculinity February 22, 2009

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For those of you who are familiar with my sex reality blog, you already know that so far in my life, I have only had sexual encounters with heterosexual guys. It’s clear in my head that I want nothing to do with the vast majority of gay guys and my sexual desire is chiefly geared toward the pussy-loving kind. Whenever I admit that, however, most people give me the puzzled look; the reactions range from incredulity to advices on accepting my own sexual orientation to plain admitted jealousy. Oh silly them!

This is the first installment of my informative series on desire for heterosexual guys. In the months to come, I will try to explain why I only go for str8 guys who, in theory, don’t give a darn about me. I am well aware that the “str8 guy” fantasy has become quite popular in porn recently and quite a few gay guys prefer to have sexual encounters with “heterosexual guys” whatever that means; in no way do I claim to be special or unique here but my preference precedes that fad. I just never had an attraction to gay guys. Read on to find out why I prefer those who play for the other team!

Reason One: Raw Masculinity vs Fakers, Metrosexuals, Fashion Victims and Gym Queens

Latino gang member with tattoos

Let’s start with the fairly obvious that’s not so obvious after all. I like a man to be… manly. Whenever I mention that, the boring gay advocates run their predictable 1980s tapes and inevitably serve me their official response that always goes among those same lines: “wake up, there are very masculine gay guys, come on”. Usually, those people refer me to the muscular guys that populate gay parades or the odd gay blue collar worker. This allows me to clear up one thing: my definition of masculinity.

I know a “real man” when I see one. It would be very difficult to make up a list of characteristics or requirements for a person to be considered a man. One thing is absolutely certain in my mind (and it’s far from obvious to most gay guys that I have encountered), for me, masculinity is not limited to the superficial physique. Being a man is an attitude, a way of life, a way of thinking, a way of walking, a way of seeing life, a way of winning, a way of dressing. Sure the gym queens have impressive muscles. Some of them could *almost* fool me… and then they open their mouths, and then they start walking, and then they express their views, and then they spend hours falling in love with themselves. But I don’t mind because, by then, I had time to run far, far away!

“Well if they have sex with you, they’re not so str8!”

“You’re after str8 guys because you’re in denial yourself… quit that self-hate. Gay is ok, you know.”

“How do you know they’re even str8?”

“Damn, how do you do that? Can I suck with you or at least watch?”

While most gay guys stop at impressive six-pack abs, my sophisticated psyche dwells further. Don’t hate me, I can’t help it. I was born that way! Physically, I like really masculine men. I like guys who have self-confidence, internal locus of control, high sex drive, who are assuming, powerful, daring go-getters, who do not apologize for living. This is all very nice and sweet but let’s look at a real-life example.

Cristiano Ronaldo, a case in point

The guy is an accomplished soccer player, the guy is exotic-looking, the guy has acne (=high hormones and sexual drive), the guy has sexy abs and strong legs, the guy has money. That’s the definition of an ideal man, right? And then you look at him like this… eugh!

Cristiano Ronaldo in Beverly Hills

Thanks sweetie-pie for helping me make a point. Now go back to the tanning parlor. You don’t want to look like a sick ghost in Hollywood. Nasty.

Gaynaldo

Many gay guys I’ve seen look more manly than THAT. I like men, not dolls.

Of fashion and penis-squeezing underwear

Str8 men are independent and strong-headed. Homosexuals and metrosexual fashion victims: NOT MASCULINE, no matter if “officially” str8. As mentioned above, real men lead or at least do what they want; fashion victims are, by definition, insecure and passive followers of other people’s dictates. Becoming a looser to something as superficial and fake as fashion (incidentally created by fags) takes away all masculinity, liberty and admiration a man could have in my eyes. To me, a man looks more masculine in thorn gray Hanes briefs than in those fancy, uber-tight, rainbow-colored-and-too-short undies. To me, a man has a penis (didn’t think I would ever have to specify that) and a penis needs space. What’s with those underwear that try to squeeze dicks into becoming tiny clits? Is that another attempt to make guys even more feminine? Just look at the ad below and you’ll know what I mean. Poor “guys”. They may well have tiny Asian dickies but even they are grasping for air and suffering from being squeezed into girlie baby undies. NOT SEXY, EVEN LESS MANLY!

Gay underwear

Gay Football underwear

Mirror, mirror on the wall, am I the faggiest of them all?

Real men are too busy doing things and enjoying masculine activities to stop and fall in love with themselves. Self-conscious guys who think that they are beautiful just stop being masculine in my eyes. Guys who think they’re all that just lose their natural, raw charm and therefore all their power of attraction. That’s why most male models just leave me very cold. They look so fake or just have this bland traditional beauty to them and that is feminine. To me, careless jocks who aren’t afraid to get dirty, who sometimes get hurt and injured don’t have time to play pretty dolls. That’s their girls’ job. Besides, is there anything sexier than sweaty jocks, dirty soccer socks, locker rooms? I just don’t get that thrilled by spas, hairdressers, laser hair removal and department stores, sorry. So those obsessed with hiding their raw side, striving to eliminate their masculine features, and adopting petty feminine behavior (surgery, changing hair color, earrings, perfume abuse)… no thanks!

Real Men from XMMA

More famous examples, please!

While a strong physique, a proactive and dominant attitude in life and involvement in criminal (latino gang members, mafia boys), extreme (wrestlers, daredevils, risk-takers), dangerous (firemen), heroic (military men) or athletic activities (hockey players) is sure to earn guys major brownie points, these points are quickly lost when frivolous behavior or feminine attitudes exist. No matter how masculine, how heterosexual or how athletic,

  • a sexy Italian mafia boy who kills competitors by night (wow, daring, sexy, courageous = +80 points) and spends his days at a tanning salon (eugh, nasty -90 points) = not manly
  • publicity-seeking (-40) cutiepie (+20) hockey player (+80) José Theodore who follows fashion trends (-30), wears an earring (-20) and is involved with Paris Hilton (-60) = not manly
  • tough football players (+80) who like to get ass-fucked (with dildos, strap-ons, or by guys: -100) = not manly

On the other hand, despite their seemingly unfavorable start Kostitsyn brothers: Sergei Kostitsyn and Andrei Kostitsyn

  • hockey-playing (+80) Belorussian Kostitsyn brothers became involved with a dope-dealing criminal who provided them with whores to empty their balls (hot, +80)… they may not be so pretty (-40) or wear the latest designer sunshades but hell, they sure are men and that’s how I like them! They play hard, they dare, they get going, they risk, they try kinky things. That’s precisely the kind of men I admire, desire and… pleasure.
  • hot, hung (+40) str8, married (and father of 2) guy (+40) and gay-for-pay pornstar (-50) gone killer (+60)  Marcus Allen
  • sexy young (18yo I think, +50) bad boy (+40) from a small town in Quebec, Canada who, along with a buddy, broke into an elderly lady’s house, stole her belongings and raped her… talk about courage, thrills and kinkiness (+90)
  • although young and girlie-faced (-35), Jonathan Roy is still very masculine because of his hockey playing, athletic body and aggressiveness on the ice rink (+90)

pornstar and killer "Marcus Allen"

And what about Michael Phelps?

Quick analysis of the raw masculinity of the swimmer.tall preppy Michael Phelps launching book

The masculine:

  • is remarkably tall, muscular, sporty, and disciplined (+50)
  • has lots of natural charm and is raw & “normal looking” (+40)
  • is strong-headed and can be stubborn (+20)
  • is an accomplished, talented gold medal machine (+50)
  • is courageous, expressive, physical and has drive (+40)
  • is wealthy (+20)
  • dresses casual, normal (+40)
  • acts masculine (+40)
  • has a definite sense of humor (+10)
  • is humble and not overly self-conscious (+40)
  • is independent and able to be alone (+10)
  • is evasive about his love/sex life… doesn’t deny, doesn’t confirm it… doesn’t lie, but doesn’t reveal anything either… that’s kinda strong given today’s inquisitive and star-struck society (+10)
  • parties, drinks, drives, does dope and makes stupid mistakes (+40)
  • does superbly well for an “absent father” case; may be gay but generally has a jock-next-door appearance and attitude (+40)

The feminine:

  • is very obedient, disciplined (mother, coach, sponsors, etc.) (-40)
  • apologizes for being young and wild (or not obedient) (-60)
  • is a mommy’s boy (which is cute but you know…) (-20)

Masculine (+450) + Feminine (-120) =330

Verdict: Definitely Raw Masculinity. Michael Phelps’ style, relaxed attitude and jocky character reminds me of Rob, a str8 guy I sucked a few times. But being a champ, a young success story, he would probably qualify as one of the rare masculine gay guys I could become enamored with. So it’s definitely a special case.

In short, it’s not as obvious to be a man as it may first seem. Although very few gay guys can fit my definition of masculinity, str8 guys do not automatically qualify. If anything, I am a doll so when it comes to sex, I’m not looking for a sister, shopping partner or guys who look and act more feminine than I can. I’m looking to mate with real men (both physically and psychologically), guys who are active, courageous and exhibit masculine qualities such as physical strength and strength of character, independence, success and accomplishment. It is these raw, careless kinds of winners that get me wet, that’s all.

Next week: The second reason why I only have sex with heterosexual guys.

He passes, he shoots! Gooooaaaal! Playing with M.C. (9.5/10) January 5, 2009

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OK, if I was a goalie, I would really, really suck. I mean, I already suck but if I was a goalie I would be really bad. I just cannot prevent a hot guy from scoring with me. This is the special case of M.C.

Recruitment. I was gently enjoying my last day of vacation, surfing the net, cleaning around, doing “stuff”, you know, everything most ordinary. Then, M.C., this hot hockey jock messages me: “Don’t work today… I would have liked to get head today”. I was changing my bed sheets and I only got his message 10 minutes later. I replied, and messaged again but nothing. The fact that he was writing in the past was a bad sign but I didn’t give up. I wrote a few more lines on MSN and then I gave up. Obviously, he wasn’t at the computer.

I’ve known M.C. through the net for a year or so. He messaged me on a dating site back in the days and we just could never manage to meet. He was teasing me sooooo many times and for so long. I even think he enjoyed doing so but, at the same time, I do not doubt that he has a very busy schedule: practice, gym, hockey, friends, girlfriend. Seeing the number of medals in his room testifies to his talent… and makes me want him even more. Who doesn’t get wet at the idea of playing with an accomplished sports figure… I know I do!

M.C. wrote back some 1-2 hours later. He said it was time to work… he was working evening shift (as a mechanic). We chatted for some time and I asked to see his body and dick. He insisted I open my webcam but I do not have a webcam and have always told him that. He seemed less rigid, less categorical than usual. I showed him a few of my pictures and he opened his webcam to tease me. His perfect torso, sexy boxers and big dick reminded me why he was still on my MSN after all these months. It was another teasing webcam show but it was worth it. It was also the first time that I saw his dick! I reiterated my offer: he could come anytime. Anytime baby! He was so hot that I’d do anything! The hottie took my words at face value and asked me what I would be ready to do in order to suck his dick. Oh darn… what did I get into. I told him quite frankly. The guy likes it kinky and was turned on by my ideas (pee in my mouth, face fuck me, fuck my ass hard, have me lick his ass, etc.) and mostly, by my determination to suck his dick. He said he would call his job to see if he could come in 1 hour late… he didn’t cum in days so he was, quite understandably, very horny.

It turned out that he could postpone work, for he had more urgent matters to “work on” between his legs. I gave him my address and summary instructions to get here. I proceeded to rush and get ready but, most of all, wash the floor in my bathroom. There were questions of him peeing on my face in my tub and he also wanted to take a shower after we’re done, so my bathroom needed to be shiny. I rushed to have the bathroom cleaned (not that it was very dirty to begin with) and managed to get ready. He then called that he was on his way on the highway. Some 15 minutes later he called telling me he was on street X. Oh no, that’s way too far. He turned around and called back 2 more times to get the directions. At this point, I was quite nervous. I didn’t expect one of my dream guys to come tonight. I wasn’t ready. But I was perfectly aware that if I said NO, the next opportunity could well be in months time or… never! I was pretty convinced that he would call to cancel it as we were supposed to meet from 18:20 til around 19:00. It was already 18:40 and he wasn’t here. He came in at 18:45 but, to my relief, he said we had til around 19:45-20:00. We had time to play, so play we did!

The encounter. I’ve seen M.C. on a few pictures and on webcam, yet it stroke me how hot he was. I remember I fantasized over the first picture he sent me in his hockey jersey. He looked so fine and so manly; a typical hot 25yo jock, really. I thought to myself that I’d never bed this hottie; he was just too straight, too young, too insecure, too hot. So when he walked my door, smiled, and took off his shoes, I was in heaven. He was determined and I was shy, I was insecure, yet I wanted to savour the moment. I asked him if he mind if I took pictures. He said it’s OK, as long as I don’t post it around the net. I agreed and invited him to my room but he didn’t seem to want to be there. He said he’s OK with it but when I suggested going to the bathroom, he enthusiastically accepted and followed me.

I looked at him and asked him if I could take off his Canadiens shirt. He let me and even took it off himself, revealing his tight slightly tanned torso. I, like a teenage girl in admiration, started complimenting him and telling him how hot he looked. I might have sounded like a sucker, but I was totally sincere. I couldn’t help but take pictures. He was OK with it… no, he was actually proud to show off and he only got more and more comfortable with time. He was shirtless and took off his pants. At that point he asked me to undress as well, saying that he wants to see how I look like as well. I was uncomfortable but got to my undies. As he got completely naked, he told me to get totally naked as well. I didn’t want to but he insisted. Anyone could have major complexes in front of such a fine body. I’m not out of shape or anything but you know… I wasn’t psychologically ready to show off like that. But would I ever say NO to M.C.? Do not underestimate my dedication and obedience to hot young men.

I got into the bath completely naked and as I was kneeling in front of his long cock, he asked me what I wanted to do. I replied, candidly, that I wanted to marry him. The image was great but he said that we would take care of that another time. Hehe. Sweet. FYI: I didn’t really believe we really would come on, I’m sexy but not totally brainless.

Piggy heaven. I asked him if he wanted to pee. He said yes. So I asked if he would pee on me or directly in my mouth. I took his cock in my mouth but as he got hard, he said it would be more difficult to pee with a hardon. At this point, I had one foot in piggy’s heaven so I didn’t really care. I started sucking his dick. Hmmmmm. Ecstasy. I quickly sucked my way into a very hard dick. It was impressive. The guy didn’t lie: 9 inches of hard uncut French-Canadian cock and the sexy nuts that go with it. I clearly prefer cut penises but M.C.’s dick was nice. I am still quite new to sucking non-circumcised penises, but I’m starting to get familiar with the taste, with the particular texture, that’s definitely different from their circumcised counterparts.

After a moment of sucking, M.C. asked me if he can suck me. I said it would be rather uncomfortable in the bath so he just grabbed my dick and stroke it a bit. He got me hard, as I have lost my erection while sucking. I was thrilled, excited and everything but it was a more psychological pleasure. As soon as I backed off, looked at his dick and let him stroke me, I became hard again. Soon after, I resumed sucking his dick, continuing the motion with my fingers on his dick head. By now, I was massaging his balls and the tube under his balls with one hand but mostly, I was sucking harder and extending the scope of my mouth with my other hand wrapped around his shaft. The motions were becoming quicker and deeper and I could clearly taste salty pre-cum. It was a reassuring compliment: insecure me was on the right track. I was amazed at the size of his sexy cock. He asked if I wanted to get fucked. I wasn’t ready for that. Being a perfectionist, I wanted to have my ass prepared for such a feast. And a feast it would be. I knew it would be hot maybe not because of the boy’s experience or skills (although I could be surprised) but by the sheer size of his one-eyed monster. I realize there may never be a second time, but I’d rather never do it than do it all wrong.

M.C. wanted to 69 so we proceeded to the bedroom where we did just that for a while. It was the second time my dick was in a guy’s mouth. I didn’t really care as the core of my concentration was on his throbbing dick. For sure, I get a million times more pleasure servicing a hot guy’s cock than getting sucked myself. At this stage, sixtynining, I had thoughts about M.C.’s health status. If he sucks guys, is he 100% clean? I didn’t ask, as he told me he is clean before. I’m sure he wouldn’t admit anything just now and it would only ruin the moment.

I continued my compliments (what a sucker, I know) but I was genuinely enthusiastic. I was a bit uneasy with my looks and body but M.C. reassured me. He said I looked good and all. I hate being in the position where one puts himself down in an attempt to harvest compliments from the other person. That wasn’t my intention but I just couldn’t help feel inferior compared to M.C.’s jocky hot looks. I then proceeded to kneel in front of the bed and suck in my usual and preferred position (guy seating/laying back on bed with me kneeling between his legs). I worked my magic, caressing his torso and legs from time to time. The hottie asked me where I wanted him to cum. I told him it’s up to him, in my mouth or on my face is equally hot. He decided that he would shoot in mouth first and then the rest on my face so he instructed me to open my mouth when he stands up. I sucked some more, helping myself with my hand. The rock hard dick felt soooo good in my mouth. I sucked a little and then M.C. stood up, I opened my mouth and he instantly shot a powerful cum jet in my mouth. It was my first time receiving a powerful cum shot aimed in my mouth (as opposed to shot inside my mouth). I could actually hear the semen splash on my tongue and inside my mouth. It was hot. A second cumshot followed and I was pretty much in heaven. I didn’t expect anything else but M.C.’s balls were far from empty yet.

He proceeded to shoot 3 or 4 more powerful streams of white milk on my left cheek, face, nose, neck and eye. I had half of my face covered in cum and I could feel it dripping. It was awesome. When he was done shooting me, I grabbed his dick and sucked it. He was moaning a bit and his dick was ultra-sensitive. If I sucked it a bit too strong, he would tense and withdraw a bit… I knew it was a powerful orgasm that he just had. I sucked his cock thoroughly. I sucked until the last drop, for about a minute or so. There was still some cum in it for me, so I continued and his moans were a sweet melody to my ears. It was my hot reward and I loved drinking a hot jock’s huge load.  I could have gone on and on for hours, sucking and sucking until his dick became totally flaccid and there was no milk for me to suck.

  • Fuck, what a self-control! M.C. stood up and instantly shot it all, meaning he controlled himself till the last moment in my mouth. He didn’t have to jerk himself to completion. He just stood up and started shooting!
  • What a precision! He aimed 2 powerful blasts right in my open mouth, right there, passed my tongue!
  • What a power! Definitely the most powerful, strongest cumshots I’ve even experienced.
  • What a flood of cum shots! I do believe him that he didn’t ejaculate in days. At least 5 big and powerful cumshots. It was like a never-ending symphony, with cumshot after cumshot delivered in my mouth and then on my cocksucker’s face.
  • What a stud!

M.C. proceeded to the bathroom and took a shower. I gave him a new towel and took some pictures (and videos). We talked a little while he was showering. Then he got dressed. I jokingly said this was the moment I would steal his undies to sleep with the scent of a man. He said that if he knew he would wear another pair, as these were his sexy and expensive ones. I agreed. He got dressed, we made some small talk about his muscles and body. He also told me that he only did stuff with 2-3 other guys before. He doesn’t have time with practice, girlfriend… and he wants to stay discreet on that part of his sexuality. He took his coat from my bed and put his shoes on and left. I truly felt blessed for having a chance to live out my longtime fantasy. I still feel blessed to have fantasies and live them out with such beautiful and masculine men.

The grade. Charming face, extremely hot and hard body (look at those lines), kind, cool, very athletic, kinky, 9-inch cock, hot balls, huge load, accomplished sportsman, hot undies… easily deserving 9.5 out of 10 and probably one of my hottest encounters ever. I was a bit hesitant to give him such a high mark since he’s bisexual and was obviously enjoying my body. I was uneasy with him being comfortable with my dick but in the end, that’s also a natural way to be. His manly looks, body and attitude more than compensate this little gay side. I’m proud I could suck M.C. and because of his “major-hottie-that-I’ve-been-craving-for-a-year” status, I did things that I normally wouldn’t do. I’m so happy I could start 2009 with him. I therefore plant this rare bush in my garden in memory of this hot booty call.

While proudly showing off his body in the shower, M.C. was telling me how he used to be bigger a few months ago (bigger pecs and more defined abs). He mentioned that he will show me when he gets back to that shape. I said I would gladly shoot professional pictures of him and his body. The hottie left and was caring til the end, advising me not to stand in the door, as I was in my undies. Maybe he was shy that he could be seen with me half-naked but I really think that he was caring. Getting back to work tomorrow and only starting to feel healthy after my week-long nasty cold, it was a wise advice that I followed. M.C. left, got back to his car and drove away.

Did I take pictures of M.C.? You bet your hot ass that I did! I will post a few on here tomorrow as soon as I load them from my camera. If you like them and comment, I will post a few more.

[More details, stats, pictures and videos of this boy are available. For privacy reasons, they can only be accessed on a password-protected page through the members section.]

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